"Your baby blues, so full of wonder
Your curly cues, your contagious smile
And as I watch, you start to grow up
All I can do is hold you tight
Knowing clouds will rage
And storms will race in but you will be safe in my arms
Rains will pour down, waves will crash all around
But you will be safe in my arms
Story books full of fairy tales
Of kings and queens and the bluest skies
My heart is torn just in knowing
You'll someday see the truth from lies
When the clouds will rage
And storms will race in but you will be safe in my arms
Rains will pour down, waves will crash all around
But you will be safe in my arms
Castles they might crumble
Dreams may not come true
But you are never all alone
Because I will always, always love you
When the clouds will rage
And storms will race in but you will be safe in my arms
Rains will pour down, waves will crash all around
But you will be safe in my arms, in my arms."
The Lyrics from "In My Arms", Written and Performed by: Plumb
This song by Plumb is one of those mommy songs that always “gets” me. I can be guaranteed a good cry by the time I get to the chorus, and by the end I’m pondering motherhood and all its many joys. It’s good sometimes to step back from the daily routines and truly ponder what it means to love and be loved.
When Gabriel was young, I used to hold him close in my arms. I had a sense of control that while there, he would be completely safe. The clouds could race in, the storms could rage. But he would be safe. It was that fairy tale time—I was queen and he was my little prince. But even in my arms I could not keep his heart beating, or feed him if his little tummy did not first send the hunger cue to his brain.
He is only 18 months now, but his independence has grown, and I have already felt those strange moments of him growing up. And though it feels forever away, if what every mother says is true, I will blink, and he will be 18. His dreams may not come true, his castle might crumble, and the storms might rage against him. Even then, I will figuratively hold him in my arms, and tell him how much I love him.
The hard truth remains that he will never be completely safe in my arms. I will do everything I can as a mother to protect my child physically, emotionally, and spiritually. But he will be exposed to hurt and prayerfully growth in all of those areas. I don’t want to “overprotect” him. I think most of us have seen the harm in that extreme—need I follow up Plumb’s song with creepy Mother Gothel’s “Mama Knows Best” from Tangled? Not the ideal either.
Thankfully, even though I cannot completely keep my child safe, I have found comfort in another truth. It’s the love that I feel when I am so in love with my son. It’s the fact that I am not the only one who feels this love for my son. There’s my husband, and my parents and his parents, and Gabriel’s myriad of aunts and uncles, and his three boy cousins, and friends, ranging from 0-90 years old. I find comfort in the fact that it’s not just me trying to help him through the storms of life. Our community is right there helping.
The love that has overwhelmed me the most is the love from God, who says He loves us with an everlasting love, one that is higher than the heavens, deeper than the oceans, and farther than the East is from the West. He has that same love for my son. Love deeper than mine. A love that can not only protect from the storms of life, but send them running the other direction with a simple command.
All these are the arms into which I find myself, my son in my arms.